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How to Meet Sugar Mama For Real

 

If you're having problems trying to get the Sugar Mama dating you out of your house, the following tips may help. Firstly, don't give up on this woman. She's a "cat burglar" and will always be out there, trying to get into your home.

 

You don't need to leave the house - if you've done all you can, it's time to "play detective" and look for other options. You have to remember that sometimes you can play the Sugar Mama and other times, you can't. She is not in a traditional relationship with you.

 

If you don't want the Sugar Mama to use you, don't let her inside your home. Don't let her into your home in the first place. Let her know that she is not welcome there and then tell her to go away. Go right ahead and park at the neighboring block and wait for her to show up at your front door.

 

Make it really clear that you don't want to be around her. Now you can go to another neighborhood and do a little "poker." Start by asking how much the prices are. Next, tell her that you're willing to pay the exact same price. Once you do this, get her phone number and let her know that you're not afraid to call her and ask her out.

 

"Excuse me ma'am, can I come in?" When she asks you why you want to come in, answer her with the same statement you made when you first asked her out.

 

After the second or third time you "lie" and tell her she's "really welcome in," she will realize that you don't need her. She will expect you to keep offering her "dates" every now and then.

 

If you're dealing with the Sugar Mama, don't try to argue with her. Your best bet is to calmly say something like "well, since you don't want me, I'll just leave." After she asks you if you want to move to another area, tell her that you'll consider it. This way, if she tries to call you again, you can say you just want to go someplace else.

 

Sugar Mama tricks are "toes in the water" types of stories. There is no reason to tell them. Tell the story in a matter-of-fact manner and tell her you'll think about it.

 

Don't get too close to the  sugar mummy onlinewww.womenchannel.org/ . Don't bother her with any type of personal comments about yourself or your family. If you do this, she'll become defensive and it will make her very uncomfortable and if she is comfortable, she won't be open to the situation.

 

If you catch her off guard, she'll be easy prey and you can easily break the tension by saying something like "how is your new job going?" Or, "I'm sorry about last night. Did you want to talk about it?"

 

If the Sugar Mama is a casual approach to socializing, if you want to have any success, keep the lines of communication open. It will only take one initial interaction between you, to make it a win-win for both of you.